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How generosity can become a form of control

My wealthy brother always picks up the check at family dinners and everyone thinks he is generous but I know it is because he wants to choose expensive restaurants I cannot afford.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Economic gestures that appear altruistic can function as displays of power that reinforce rather than bridge financial differences.

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