Going Through Divorce

Stop Avoiding Your Finances

You know what you need to do with money. The pattern I keep seeing is that something stops you from looking at it directly. The avoidance is doing more damage than the debt itself.

Be Open to Love Again

You're not afraid of love. You're afraid of what love requires. The avoidance is a form of self-protection that has started to cost more than what it's protecting.

Parent Without Controlling

The love is not the problem. The anxiety underneath the love is expressing itself as control. Children need roots and wings — you've built extraordinary roots.

Stop Analyzing and Start Acting

You are very good at understanding your problems. That is not the same as moving through them. At some point the analysis has to give way to something. You know exactly what that something is.