Should I give anonymously or let people know about my charitable donations?

Rabia al-Adawiyya loved purely, without needing acknowledgment. She didn't give to be seen or remembered. That said, there's nuance here that matters for your life and community. If public giving would genuinely inspire others or build momentum for a cause, that's not ego—that's being useful. If you're giving to feel important or to prove something, that's different. The honest question is: Why do you want recognition? Are you seeking belonging or validation? Both are human. There's nothing wrong with wanting to belong. But belonging through authentic contribution is different from belonging through credit-taking. Here's a practical path: Give anonymously when it's purely between you and the organization. But don't hide your values from your family and friends. Let them see you care. If they ask where you volunteer or which causes you support, answer honestly. This creates permission for others to give too. Some of your most meaningful giving might be completely private—supporting a neighbor, helping a friend. Some might be public—serving on a board, being visible in your community. Let the nature of the giving determine the visibility. The goal is integrity: your giving reflects your actual priorities, not a curated version of yourself.