How can I build genuine community when I feel isolated or burned out?
Rabia's entire life was about belonging—not to protect herself, but because she understood that love and community are where transformation happens. If you're isolated, it might not be because connection is impossible; it might be because you haven't found people who see you. Start by being honest about what you're looking for: Do you want to be known, or just to avoid loneliness? There's a difference. Burnout often comes from performing community rather than living in it. Real belonging doesn't require you to be perfect, productive, or constantly available. It requires vulnerability and reciprocity. Look for one person or small group where you don't have to earn your place—maybe a faith community, a dinner table, a shared practice. Something where showing up as you are is enough. Burnout also signals that you've overextended yourself. Stewardship of your energy means protecting time for rest and genuine connection, not endless activity. Rabia loved deeply but wasn't trying to save everyone. She was present to the people in front of her. That's the model: depth over breadth. Start with one meaningful connection and let others grow from there.