How do I figure out what legacy I actually want to leave behind?

Start by noticing what breaks your heart and what makes you come alive. Rabia didn't ask permission to love God radically—she just knew it was the only thing that mattered. Your legacy isn't about being remembered perfectly. It's about the imprint of how you loved, what you stood for, and what you refused to compromise on. Ask yourself: What do people come to me for? What would I regret not doing? What small acts of mine have actually changed someone? Legacy often isn't grand. It's the teacher who stayed late, the friend who kept showing up, the parent who admitted mistakes. Write down three moments when you felt most yourself—not successful, most *yourself*. That's pointing you toward it. Then ask: How do I do more of that? Less time on what drains you, more on what feeds the world through you. Your legacy is being written now, not after you're gone.