How can I make sure my letters and journals reach the right people after I'm gone?
This is a practical act of love. First: tell someone you trust what you're doing and where these letters are. Write down the locations, passwords if they're digital, names of people who should receive specific letters. Update this information yearly. Consider a sealed envelope with clear instructions—not hidden, but held by an executor or family member you name explicitly. If you're using Periagoge or a similar platform, set up beneficiary access now while you can confirm it works. Don't rely on 'they'll know to look'—they won't know where to look, or they'll be too grief-stricken to search. The practical part is actually love: you're removing the burden of mystery. You're saying, 'I planned for you. I made this easy.' Rabia's devotion wasn't abstract—it was expressed through action, through showing up. Do the same here. Make a document. Leave it with your will or with someone you've explicitly told. Check it every few years. Small steps. This isn't morbid—it's the opposite. It's ensuring that your voice, your presence, gets to keep moving through your community even after you're gone.