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How do we price a service we haven't really defined yet?

You keep saying the hard part is pricing. It isn't. Pricing is easy once the thing being priced is real. What you have right now is a service that bends to fit whoever asks — more hours here, a favor there, an exception for the client who shouts loudest. A product doesn't bend. It has edges. You haven't built the edges yet, so naturally no price feels right; you're trying to tag a shape that keeps changing. This is not a solo problem, and you shouldn't try to solve it alone at your desk. Your team has been delivering this work together, informally agreeing on what counts as 'done' and what counts as 'extra.' Those private agreements are the actual product. Drag them into the open. Someone on your team believes the offer includes unlimited revisions; someone else assumes it doesn't. Until you resolve that out loud, together, your pricing conversation is really an argument between two different businesses wearing one name. Do not wait for the packaging to feel finished before you price it. It will never feel finished — that's comfort talking, not readiness. Decide what you deliver, for whom, and why it's worth paying for. Write it down where everyone can see it. Then price the thing you wrote, not the thing you secretly still hope to become.

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There's a real concept to teach (define before you price) but the bulk of the work is forcing a team to surface and settle disagreements they've been avoiding.
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What’s really going on

The price isn't stuck — the definition is. You cannot set a fair number on something your team hasn't agreed is one thing, for one kind of person, solving one named problem. Stop arguing about price. Sit down together and write, in one sentence, exactly what you deliver and to whom. The number follows that sentence; it does not come before it.

🔒 What you’ll build togetherUnlock by starting
A moveGather the team and write one sentence together: 'We deliver [X] for [specific person] so they can [result].' No sentence, no pricing meeting.
A moveList every exception you've made for past clients. Circle the ones that happened more than once — those are secretly part of your offer. Decide, together, in or out.
A movePick three past projects. Have each person independently write what they think was included. Compare the lists out loud. The gaps are your real packaging problem.
A moveSet a boundary line: name one thing this offer will not do. A product is defined as much by its edges as its contents.
A movePrice the sentence you wrote, not the client in front of you. If a deal needs a different price, that's a different offer — name it as one.
PractiseDefine the Edges · a Pod of 4 · 30 min

What changes unlock by starting

  • A single written sentence the whole team agrees defines the offer
  • A short, explicit list of what's included and what isn't
  • Fewer pricing arguments, because the argument underneath them is settled
  • A price you can quote without hedging, because you know what you're quoting it for
One object, two jobs: a public answer to a real problem, and — the moment you start the chat — Aurelius’s live plan for your version of it.