The Pattern
You keep choosing partners who are wrong for you in the same specific ways. The attraction is real — and that's exactly what makes this worth examining. What you're attracted to is telling you something about what you believe you deserve.
What Mastery Looks Like
The capacity to love and be loved with clarity and openness
The Path Forward
Work through it with Mira
Guides on this pattern, each one a conversation you can start rather than an article you read.
Related patterns
Patterns that often live alongside this one.
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Talk it through with Mira, and start where it actually helps.