Practice

If You're Honest About Favoritism — when it happens and what it costs...

Uncover hidden favoritism patterns in your life and relationships. Explore the real costs of bias through ancient wisdom and honest self-reflection.

Rabiaguide

What you’ll practice

This is a reflective practice guided by Rabia. It gives you one honest question to sit with — the kind that moves you from thinking about an idea to working with it.

The reflection itself unfolds in conversation with Rabia, where it adapts to your situation — so you practice it together rather than reading it off the page.

Practice this with Rabia

Begin the reflection in a coaching conversation, where it meets what you’re actually working through.

Understand first

The Trap of Conditional Belonging The Ego's Need to Be Chosen Pure Devotion Versus Instrumental Relationships The Corruption of Community Through Rank Belonging as Unconditional Inclusion

Go deeper

Favoritism — when it happens and what it costs: Questions Worth Asking Favoritism — when it happens and what it costs: Start Here Why Favoritism — when it happens and what it costs Matters Favoritism — when it happens and what it costs in Practice Favoritism — when it happens and what it costs

Peri

New to this practice?

Peri can explain what this practice is for, help you decide whether it fits what you’re working through, and point you to the right place to begin.

Ready to practice this?

Begin the reflection with your coach, or tell Peri what you’re working through.