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How do I actually coach reps on their deals?

You sit in the deal review. You look at the stage, the close date, the next step typed into the CRM. You ask if it's on track. The rep says yes. You both know that's not coaching — it's reporting. You were promoted because you closed deals yourself. Now you manage people who must close deals without you in the room. The skill that got you here won't get your team there. You must learn a new one: asking instead of telling. This is not a flaw in you alone — most managers never get taught it. Your pod faces the same gap. Fix it together, and you stop guessing at each other's deals. You start sharpening each other's questions instead.

◆ How this problem reads on the two dials
GuidanceKnowledge
More coaching
Some to learn
1:1 with AureliusWith others (a Pod)
Some one-to-one
Practise with peers
This is mostly a practiced skill, not new information, so the split favors guided practice with just enough structure to anchor it.
How the two dials adapt to you →
What’s really going on

You don't coach a deal by reading the spreadsheet. You coach it by asking three questions: What does the customer need? What's stopping them from buying? What will you do about it this week? Ask. Don't answer for them. Choose questions over advice.

🔒 What you’ll build togetherUnlock by starting
A moveIn every deal review, ask one question before you give one opinion.
A moveMake the rep say the customer's decision criteria out loud, not from memory.
A moveAsk 'what have you tried' before you ask 'what should you do.'
A movePick one stuck deal a week and role-play the next conversation out loud with the rep.
A moveStop saying 'here's what I'd do.' Say 'what's your plan' — then wait.
PractiseDeal Interrogation · a Pod of 4 · 30 min

What changes unlock by starting

  • You can tell within one conversation whether a deal is real or hopeful.
  • Reps bring you problems earlier, before the deal is already lost.
  • Your deal reviews get shorter and change more outcomes.
  • You stop solving deals for people and start building people who solve them.
One object, two jobs: a public answer to a real problem, and — the moment you start the chat — Aurelius’s live plan for your version of it.