Your self-worth rides on flawless work
Your sense of worth is bound to producing flawless work — anything less than perfect feels like a verdict on you as a person, not just the task. So every piece of work carries the weight of your whole self-esteem, and nothing is ever allowed to just be fine.
Come, let us reason about this plainly, as one examining his own mind. You have chained your worth to a thing outside your control — the quality of any work depends on time, difficulty, others, luck, so to stake your worth on the outcome is to hand your peace to fortune, who grants and withdraws it at whim; a self-esteem that rises and falls with your last piece of work is a boat on another''s sea. The task and the person are two different things — a flawed piece of work is a fact about the work, not a verdict on the soul that made it, yet you have welded them so every imperfection becomes an indictment of your character; the work is a thing you did, not a thing you are. And locate your worth in the effort and the character, not the outcome — give the work everything that is yours, attention and care and integrity, then release the outcome that was never fully yours to command, for a person who has honestly done their best has done the whole of what a person can do, and rested there, worth no longer rises and falls with every tide. What piece of work lately felt like a verdict on you?
What changes unlock by starting
- You see worth staked on output is hostage to fortune
- You unbraid the flawed task from your character
- You give the work your full effort and release the outcome
- You rest your worth where a defect can't reach it