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Personal essay and memoir

The essay that uses the self as its material is not confession — it is inquiry, the writer using their own experience as evidence in an investigation that matters beyond the personal. The difficulty of memoir is not technical but ethical: how much of another person's life can you render in service of your own understanding, and at what cost. The best personal writing earns its privacy violations through the quality of the attention brought to what was found there.

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