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When parents age — role reversal

The moment when parent becomes child in need is one of the stranger passages a life contains, and it arrives before most people are ready. Tenderness and grief often arrive together: grief for the parent you knew, tenderness for who they are now. Care given in this season is a form of love that repays nothing and costs everything — and is worth it.

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