People pleasing is not kindness. It's a strategy — usually learned early — to stay safe by keeping others comfortable. The cost is that you disappear. There's a real person in there with real preferences.
The capacity to make clear choices grounded in genuine values
Peri can help you tell whether this pattern is really the one you’re caught in, and point you toward where to start.
Patterns that often live alongside this one.
Tell Peri what you’re noticing, and start where it actually helps.